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The Old Lady in My Bones

Advocacy – Living the Best Life I Can

J.G. Chayko strolling along the boardwalk of life.

The word “advocacy” has many definitions – according to the internet it’s defined as “public support of a cause, backing of, promotion of, championing of, argument for, push for” etc.

This description doesn’t make advocacy sound very inspiring. It’s rather a dull definition of an advocacy life. It lacks the color of the genuine sincerity and vision that fuel an advocate of chronic illness or any other cause.

When I think of arthritis advocacy, I don’t think of any of these things. I certainly don’t think of myself as a champion of life with arthritis, I simply decided I needed to continue to live the life I’d begun to build – sure it had to bend and flex a little, transform into a new version of me, but the challenges and victories that arise are no less satisfying. It’s a foreign concept to some that those with chronic disease get up every day, go to work, look after their families, visit friends, travel and participate in activities – in all outward appearances, we still live a normal life. Granted it takes more energy for us to do these “normal” everyday things, but we do them – because getting up every morning and participating in life is a powerful conquest over disease.

I didn’t set out to be an advocate. I became an advocate quite by accident. I tumbled headlong into the valley of encouragement and support. I am buoyed by all the brave warriors that have come before me, and after me, by their fearlessness, determination, and indomitable spirit. The advocacy life is not just about living life with arthritis – it’s about living the best life I can.

Here is a bit of my journey in my latest post for Creaky Joints – The “Accidental” Advocate

“I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul” – William Ernest Henley

 

 

 

About J.G. Chayko

I am a writer living on the beautiful West Coast in Vancouver B.C. I am a poet at heart but also write prose, fiction and creative non-fiction. In my thirties, while working for a Rheumatology clinic, I was diagnosed with early Rheumatoid Arthritis. I created " The Old Lady In My Bones" to share my experience living with this disease and to create an awareness that arthritis touches people of all ages, not just the elderly.

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4 thoughts on “Advocacy – Living the Best Life I Can

  1. I’ve had the privilege of meeting many other bloggers and advocates and it’s amazing how many of us never started out with the goal of being an “advocate”. Regardless of the label, I love your posts and have enjoyed you sharing your journey with the rest of us.

    Posted by Carla Kienast | June 19, 2017, 7:24 am
    • It’s been an amazing journey, especially connecting with all the resilient warriors of arthritis, and any other chronic illness, such as yourself. Thank you for sharing your story with all of us. ❤

      Posted by J.G. Chayko | June 20, 2017, 9:28 pm
  2. Living with rheumatoid arthritis gives me the ability to empathize with added dimension. What I mean is being sensitive to the fact that reality is not as easy as it looks. I appreciate others and their efforts, especially my autoimmune friends, knowing the real effort is far greater than what appears to be so. Unspoken grace.

    Posted by Cathy Buckley | June 20, 2017, 8:13 pm

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